Although some couples stick to an “intercourse exclusive” arrangement, many others like to expand their boundaries beyond penetrative penis-vagina sex – and for these couples, oral sex is an obvious alternative. There’s nothing wrong with traditional oral sex by any means, but the more playful couples may wish to add a dollop of extra fun to their proceedings, and so may be interested in what games they can play to make the oral experience even more engaging. As long as a man’s penis health or a woman’s vaginal health isn’t called into question, jumping into oral sex games can be part of a good, healthy relationship.
Simply by using their imagination, couples can come up with oral sex games of their own devising. However, to jump-start the process, the following are a few games they may wish to try to add to the experience.
Oral sex dice
There are countless variations using dice to direct oral sex activities. Perhaps the most basic is for one partner to roll the dice. The number on the dice determines the length of time they administer orally to their partner. For example, depending upon what method of measurement has been agreed upon, a woman who rolls a seven might give her man’s penis seven licks or fellate him for seven minutes.
But there can be other variations. For example, have the two dice stand for different things. One dice stands for, say, the number of minutes an oral activity must be performed. For the other dice, each number has a different meaning, such as:
– One – traditional oral sex
– Two – oral sex with an ice cube in the mouth
– Three – focusing solely on the balls (for the man) or the breasts (for the woman)
– Four – oral sex while humming
– Five – both partners perform orally on each other simultaneously
– Six – roller’s choice – whatever he or she wants to do orally
Guided by a game show
Pick a televised game show, preferably one with only two competitors or two teams. The man chooses one contestant/team, the woman the other. When one person’s contestant or team is up, they are receiving oral sex from the other, and vice versa. If their choices compete against each other at the same time, both partners go at it simultaneously.
Favorite dessert
A messy but tasty game, each partner selects his favorite dessert and recreates that on their partner’s midsection. So the woman who loves a banana split plops three scoops of ice cream on the man’s banana, adds sauce, nuts, whipped cream, etc. and – bon appetit! Afterward, the man indulges his desire for chocolate cake by spreading icing all around his partner’s vagina.
Drinking game variation
Select a movie or TV show. Whenever someone says or does a certain thing, one of the partners performs oral sex on the other. For example, if watching a football game, the man goes down whenever team A has the ball and does so until team B gets the ball, at which point the woman returns the favor. (If choosing a movie or TV series, try to pick one that has a certain amount of repetitiveness, such as a catchphrase that is uttered often, or a tendency for the main character to wear yellow, etc., and use those are the guide for knowing when to perform orally.)
Oral sex games are even more fun for the woman when the penis she is fellating is the beneficiary of a top notch penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). A penis blessed with a crème that contains both a high-end emollient (such as Shea butter) and a natural hydrator (such as vitamin E) is less likely to have the kind of dry skin that causes a woman to hesitate. And if the crème also contains alpha lipoic acid, a potent antioxidant, it is protected from free radical damage that causes penile skin to thin and age.